During a trip to Cuenca, Ecuador in February 2025, I had the wonderful opportunity to engage in important conversations about the art of dying. Collaborating with Michelle Puga at Idiom Art, we hosted a Death Café that brought together a diverse group of individuals, including diplomats from the Ecuadorian government, locals, and expats who have retired in Cuenca. This unique gathering allowed us all to explore how death and dying are approached in the UK, particularly under the NHS, and compare this to the care offered in Ecuador during the elder years of life.
One of the most poignant experiences of my visit was witnessing a funeral procession for a community member in the stunning countryside surrounding Cuenca. The respectful, slow, and dignified pilgrimage to the cathedral on the hill highlighted the profound respect that South American culture holds for those who have passed.
The differences in funeral practices between Ecuador and the UK were striking and offered valuable insights into how various cultures honor life’s transitions. This trip not only deepened my understanding of end-of-life practices but also reinforced the importance of community in navigating such sensitive topics.
I left Ecuador feeling enriched by the connections made and the meaningful conversations held, reflecting a collective commitment to understanding and embracing the complexities of dying.
