At No One Dies Alone Cornwall, we recognize the profound impact that creative activities can have on processing grief and loss. Recently, we had the pleasure of hosting Pam Heard, a talented ceramicist, artist, and end-of-life doula, who introduced a beautiful clay activity at the Companionship Café. This opportunity allowed participants to connect with the element of earth, grounding themselves in the here and now as they shaped and formed the clay in to something simple and meaningful.
As attendees crafted balls and shrines, often adorned with angels, they engaged in meaningful conversations and tended to their hearts, supported by an atmosphere filled with cups of hot drinks and homemade cakes. The simplicity of working with clay provided a gentle outlet for emotions and fostered connection among participants, creating a space where grief could be expressed and shared.


A heartfelt thank you to Pam Heard for sharing her love of making- with us and facilitating such a warm spirited activity. Her contribution not only enriched our café but also underscored the importance of creativity in our journeys of grief. Together, we continue to foster connection, conversation, and compassion, reminding us that we are not alone in our experiences.


The setup of the holistic course incorporates the elements of earth, water, fire, and air, each representing vital aspects of our existence. This circular shape symbolizes the cyclical nature of life—birth, death, and rebirth—reminding us that our journeys are interconnected and part of a larger whole. In this ceremonial space, we can engage in deep listening and tender discussions, exploring our thoughts and feelings surrounding the end of life.


